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Free activities for children in your area

  • July 31, 2010 12:50 pm

Everyone struggles to find things to keep the kids entertained through the school holidays, did you know that there are activities organised in your local area? You can get details about these events from:

  • Your local children’s centre
  • The Library
  • Your Health Visitor

These sessions are suitable for children up to the age of 11 but there are activities arranged at the leisure centre whilst these may not be free but these are suitable for children aged 5+.

The activities include things like vegetable printing, smoothie making, drama and stories. At the stay and play sessions in my local area the session lasts for 1hr30 and during that time the children had access to painting and smoothie making as well as a wide range of toys. Towards the end of the session the children were able to taste the smoothies they had made and then they had a story in which the children were able to participate.

These are definately worth checking out if you are struggling to entertain your little monkeys.

Different types of nappy

  • May 9, 2010 7:00 pm

When people first hear about cloth nappies, they often imagine that terry towelling squares are all that’s available – with all the folding and pinning that they entail. However, modern cloth nappies can be very like disposables: shaped to fit snugly round your baby and closing with a variety of fasteners, including velcro or poppers. The nappy is not the end of the story, though: it needs a waterproof layer in order to make it effective – and this is the wrap. It is possible to mix and match nappies and wraps – don’t feel that, just because you’ve chosen a particular type of nappy you have to have the wrap that ‘goes with’ it.

There are three basic types of cloth nappies: the flat nappy (terries, prefolds and muslins); the fitted (shaped) nappy; and the all-in-one. Flat and fitted nappies are part of a two-part system and require a wrap. All in ones have their wrap attached as part of the nappy.

Terries are the “old fashioned” cotton terry towelling squares which are available in different sizes, thicknesses and absorbencies. Prefolds are made of several layers of ordinary cotton sewn into three panels – with the central panel having most layers. And muslins are simply muslin squares which are commonly used as burp cloths, dribble bibs and general factotums of baby wear. Flat nappies require some (simple) folding. Terries are then fastened with pins or nappy nippas, and prefolds are simply fixed into a wrap, which holds them in place. Flat nappies are the most economical and most versatile of all the nappies – the cheapest to buy; the easiest to care for; and they can be used for a variety of mopping up and cleaning jobs in years to come!

Fitted nappies are shaped to fit round your baby without folding – just like a disposable, and so are easier to use than flat nappies. There are two types of fitted nappy. The first is a nappy which is sized to fit your baby at different stages of development, so that as your baby grows you will need to buy the next size up. The second type is a one-size fits all nappy, which will last your baby from birth to potty. Either type of fitted nappy can be fixed in place with either poppers, velcro, the wrap or a combination of these.

Wraps are the waterproof layer of the system. They are all shaped to fit over a nappy, and they all come in different sizes. It is important that the wrap fits well at the legs and waist, and so there is no such thing as a birth to potty wrap, unfortunately! However, because you don’t need a clean wrap every time you change a nappy, you will find that four or five wraps in each size will be sufficient – although you may want more of the first size if you are going to breastfeed, as breastfed poo is quite runny and gets onto the wrap very easily, no matter how hard you try! Always change the wrap if you get poo on it, or it is very wet. Different manufacturers’ wraps use different sizing systems, and have different amounts of adjustment.

All-in-ones are basically the same idea as disposable nappies, only washable. They consist of an absorbent terry or cotton inner, with an integral plastic, waterproof backing. Because the backing limits the speed of drying, they are the slowest drying nappy, and you may want to buy more to allow for this if these are your main nappy type. They also tend to be the most expensive to buy, and the plastic tends to wear out more rapidly than in wraps, presumably because they remain wet for longer. I would recommend using them occasionally for days out rather than as the main nappy system.

There are as many different factors to consider when buying nappies as there are babies to buy them for, but here are a few ideas which might be helpful:

Terries and prefolds are the least expensive and quickest to dry. All in ones are the most expensive to buy, and slowest to dry. Absorbency varies from nappy to nappy, but in all cases can be increased by using a booster, or another nappy. Generally speaking, I find terry towelling is more absorbent than plain cotton or cotton flannel, as the loops present a greater surface area to the water, and allows it to be soaked up more quickly.

If your baby is very wriggly, consider buying nappies and wraps which fasten with velcro – much easier to cope with on a determined escapee. If your baby can undo velcro, consider terries (pins or nappy nippas) or nappies and wraps which fasten with poppers (which can be harder to undo!). For a breastfed newborn with runny poo, a fitted nappy or a terry nappy will be the most efficient at catching the poo. For terries and prefolds, folding can be initially daunting, but soon becomes second nature.

Whatever you choose, you will need to buy enough nappies to meet your needs. Expect a newborn to need changing 10 to 12 times a day, dropping to 6-8 times when older, depending on their wetting pattern – which you will come to know! The number of nappies you will need will depend on your washing cycle – fewer if you intend to wash each day, more if you only want to wash every two to three days. Remember, you will also need four or five wraps per size and perhaps more for a breastfed newborn.

You may want to experiment with different types of nappy before making a final decision. In this case, you might want to take advantage of the hire scheme, to try the nappies in your own home before you commit to buying them. If you would prefer to experiment with your own nappies, please feel free to order only one or two of each type, or to put together a sample pack of nappies and wraps, selected from what is available. All nappies will be supplied with full washing and care instructions and, where applicable, folding instructions.

You also have disposables these are single use and can be easier to some extent as you don’t need to worry about washing them, although the cost is initially high with reusable nappies it is more expensive to use disposables. At the end of the day it’s what fits best with your lifestyle and your baby.

Familes miss out on free school meals

  • September 1, 2009 7:35 pm

Statistics suggest that approximately one fifth of low-income families don’t check to find out if they are eligible for free school meals. According to the School Food Trust, families are missing out on benefits worth approximately £700 per year. It is thought that many parents simply do not know that they can claim.

The number of families that qualify has increased since the increase in unemployment due to the recession The Trust urge any parent to check with their school or local council and start claiming what’s theirs. There appears to be some confusion with parents who work part time thinking that they don’t qualify. It has also been suggested that parents might not want their children to feel stigmatised by being identified as coming from a low-income family.

There are plans to overcome this by changing the system in order to make it impossible for the peers to tell who has what. It is worth stressing that there is no shame in accepting what it rightfully yours if you are entitled to it

Entertain your child on a budget

  • August 3, 2009 8:04 am

As a parent I know how hard it is to keep a child entertained, especially when money is tight. So here are a few ideas to keep your little one busy without making a massive dent in your wallet:

  • Baking – you can make all kinds of things; fairy cakes, crispy cakes and cheese straws.
  • Painting, Drawing and Sticking -you can either let them just use water in the garden on a fence or paving slabs or use paint on paper, supermarkets and stationary stores sell all you will need for your little ones to create masterpieces to put on your fridge.
  • Playdough – it’s great fun for them and you can use it as a stress relief, here is a recipe to make your own
  • Have a few friends round – simple you can relax and catch up with your friends and your child has someone to play with

If you fancy venturing out there are a few ideas ontrips out on a budgetother options include visiting your local library, many of them do story time for toddlers and some organise activities such as treasure hunts or craft sessions.

Another thing I do with my toddler is taking her on nature walks, which is essentially a walk where you point out things like butterflies or other animals and different plants I take a carrier bag with us and some paper and wax crayons. We collect things like acorns, pine cones, leaves etc. The paper as you have probably already guessed is to do wax rubbings, my daughter loves it and we use the things we’ve collected to make collages or we make Christmas tree decorations out of pine cones.

I also take my daughter to indoor play areas these are not usually very expensive and will allow your child to burn off energy when the weather isn’t great. I also take my daughter to a farm, this can be expensive but it depends on the farm, we found one near us that is only £1 per person and if you pay an extra £1 you get a bucket of feed for the animals.

Generally speaking there is plenty of things that you can do without it costing the earth, alot of the things I do with my daughter I found from researching my local area on the internet or talking to other mums or things I enjoyed as a child. It is basically a case of trial and error. If you are new to an area you wont necessarily know anyone there so it may be worth looking for mother and toddler groups or playgroups. When I first moved I found that my health visitor was a great source of information with regards to which groups were good in my local area. The important thing to remember when entertaining your child is to have fun.

Help for working parents

  • June 17, 2009 1:19 pm

As most parents know juggling your professional and personal life isn’t easy but here are a few things that may life a little easier.

All working parents have the right to work flexible hours in order to ensure that their children are properly looked after. Many working parents in the United Kingdom have to work long hours and indeed in some instances two jobs to be able to provide a stable financial back drop against which to bring up their children. So with this in mind the government have introduced legislation that enables both parents to work a set number of hours (agreeable with their employer) in a slightly less formal structure. This could allow a parent to work part-time hours during the course of a week starting at 9am and finishing at 3pm; alternatively flexible working arrangements may allow for a parent to come into work later on a morning to allow transporting their children to school or a child minder.

Maternity Leave also known as Statutory Maternity Pay can be paid for up to thirty nine weeks after the birth of the baby. As a working parent a mother is entitled to maternity leave and statutory maternity pay if she has been in constant employment with the same company or organisation for twenty six weeks prior to the fifteenth week of her pregnancy.

In the last few years the legislation controlling the rights of fathers has changed to ensure that fathers can have paid leave to spend with their children after they are born. This is referred to as paternity leave and is paid at the same rates as maternity pay although only for one to two weeks. A father can spend one to two weeks at home with his newborn child if he is the child’s biological father or married to the child’s mother.

Although adoptive leave is right of any parent it is not always paid for and will only be paid for if there are already arrangements and agreements in place with your employer. As with maternity and paternity leave you must be employed by your current employer for twenty six weeks prior to becoming the child’s adoptive parent. An adoptive parent is entitled to up to thirty nine weeks leave which is paid at a flat rate known as Statutory Adoptive Pay. In order to qualify for adoptive leave you must notify your employer well in advance that you are being matched to a child for adoption. This allows them to make the necessary arrangements but also if their terms and conditions state you are entitled to Statutory Adoptive Pay.

In addition to these laws if you are entitled to Working Tax Credits you can claim up to 80% of the childcare costs providing that your childcare provider is registered (most nurseries, playgroups and after school clubs are registered) if you are unsure if your daycare provider is registered just ask them.
All of the aforementioned rights are afforded to working parents in the United Kingdom and if you are an expectant mother or proud father-to-be then you should investigate the terms and conditions of your employment and enquire as to whether or not these working rights are supported by your employer.

If however you are not sure then you should contact your local Citizen’s Advice Bureau who will be able to help you find out what you are entitled to and will also be able to help with understanding the terms and conditions of your contract of employment.

Your local office of Her Majesty’s Revenue and Customs (HMRC) will also be able to assist you with advice on benefits and additional monies for low income families.

Only buy what you need

  • March 25, 2008 9:50 am

I know it sounds obvious but a good way to save money is to only buy what you need; you’d be surprised how many people don’t do this.
I tend to have a clear out once every 2 months, anything which I no longer need either gets thrown away, or sent to charity shops; however if you have the time you can either sell them on ebay or at car boot sales. After clearing out you can see exactly what you need, trust me it works and saves you alot of money especially when it comes to children’s clothes and toys.

Another way is for celebrations such as birthdays if people ask what you want; tell them what you need. For my daughter’s birthday people asked what I wanted them to get so said clothes in the next size, as she had nearly outgrown the current size.

Planning your finances

  • February 17, 2008 5:52 pm

When me and my partner moved in together, worked out how much money we had coming in and then our outgoings (we used excel but the old fashioned pen and paper is just as good) this means we know how much money we have left after bills this usually pays for our social life, any unexpected bills or gets saved for holidays etc.

I would recommend this to anyone, as you can avoid getting into loads of debt and it also means that you can recognise any problems and deal with them. Thus making the most of your money

Reducing the cost of Food Shopping

  • February 17, 2008 5:41 pm

I know that many people probably already do this but doing your food shopping online can actually save you money because:

  • You don’t impulse buy
  • You can see exactly how much you are spending, so don’t spend more than you had budgeted

Other benefits include saving time as you don’t have to travel to the supermarket then all the stuff there (the actual shopping and the queueing etc) also less stress.

Whether you still prefer the old fashioned way or shopping online here are some handy hints:

  • Make a meal plan for the week, it reduces the amount of waste food
  • Make a list and stick to it

Trips out on a budget

  • January 24, 2008 10:36 am

Sick of being stuck indoors with your child?
Here are a few ideas:

  • Going swimming
  • Going to the park
  • Going to local groups e.g Jolly Babies (see music with Joan for more details)

If you’re looking to spend a little more:

  • Day trip to the seaside
  • Trip to local attractions e.g Gulliver’s Kingdom
  • hey who said going out had to be expensive?

Tips to save your wallet

  • January 5, 2008 8:18 pm

It’s a given that having children is expensive however; there are a few ways to save money:

  • Buy in Bulk
  • Shop in Sales
  • Accept second hand items
  • Ok here’s why
    Buying in bulk – not sure if anyone is familiar with economies of scale but basically it means that the price per unit is cheaper.
    You can either buy multipacks of items such as wet wipes (£5 for 4 packs), Nappies (£11.99 for 88) or buy things when on offer like buy one get one free.

    Shopping in sales – basically it’s a well known fact that sales are cheap and you can usually grab a bargain, so given that children grow so quick their clothes never fit for very long; why spend lots on clothes if you don’t have to? I cheat I wait for the sales then buy the next size up and sometimes several sizes too big.

    Accept second hand – I’m not suggesting accept everything second hand; but if money is tight second hand stuff, toys,clothes bedding etc can be a lifesaver, as long as it’s in good condition.
    Here are a few things I wouldn’t recommend getting second hand:
    Cot mattress
    Breast Pump
    Dummies
    Teats
    Underwear